Grief/Grieving/Bereavement, Social Work/Helping Profession/Mental Health

Regret: It’s Too Late Now, or Is It? — Loss, Grief, Transitions and Relationship Support

I sobbed myself to sleep the night after my brother Jim’s memorial service. The huge gathering went smoothly, including my reading, but something gnawed inside. In the middle of the night, I woke […] Source: Regret: It’s Too Late Now, or Is It?

via Regret: It’s Too Late Now, or Is It? — Loss, Grief, Transitions and Relationship Support

To me, no regrets. There is more to life than regretting the past. Focus on the present and the future.

Sometimes due to various situations, one cannot forgive, one may regret, but you cannot change what already happened. We each have choices to make as in move on in life, but be better prepared or think about the past and what may have been different or done differently and then what does the future bring? What is the present going to be?

One cannot force a relationship on a family member or friend if it is not wanted. Accept what is or terminate the relationship.